First step, I went through my Facebook and deleted guys that shouldn't have any access to my life. Why should they be able to keep tabs on what I'm doing with my life if they really didn't respect me as a person? Select and delete.
Next step, deleted numbers from my phone. What I should have done is change all of them to "DO NOT ANSWER". Guess I'll do that on my next round of deletes.
Step Three, I've removed myself from the nightlife Hollywood scene. Sure, there might be a really nice guy in a club....but he probably isn't the type of guy that is picking up on a girl in a nightclub. So instead of going out, I'm going hiking on Saturday and Sunday mornings. Because I would much rather meet someone there, at coffee or the Farmers Market!
By doing that, I've cleaned house. Got rid of all the negativity and douchebags in one clean swoop. I'm baggage free. LOL. And that opened me up to doing something I've said I'm totally against....online dating. I'm checking it out. I'm holding my judgement for a later date......
Nice Steph. I've had much better luck meeting non-suck women avoiding bars. Charity events, volunteer activities, Meetups, Tweetups, etc have all been great. Good luck!
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