Contractions started over the weekend and Earl and I thought my doctor would be sending us directly over to the hospital from his office during my Monday appointment. When he said I hadn't even started to dilate and we needed to start talking about inducing at the end of the week, I was angry. We left his office knowing that if she didn't come by Thursday, he was having me induced. My blood pressure had been an issue the entire pregnancy so letting me go past my due date was not an option.
We got home and decided to go for a walk. We were going to get this girl out! Contractions were coming but weak and really far apart. I felt totally out of it after dinner and decided to head to bed around 11:30pm. At 2:30am I woke up to stronger contractions but this had happened the past few nights. I woke up Earl to let him know that I was using the iPhone app to time them and they were about 10 minutes apart. But to go back to sleep and I'll let him know if they got any closer together. Before I knew it, I had drifted back to sleep......then BAM!!! At 6:30am I woke up to a VERY strong contraction and felt my water leak. I jumped up and yelled to Earl and went into the bathroom and had another VERY strong contraction. I couldn't move or talk. I came out of the bathroom and Earl was jumping up to get our bags. Before I could even say anything another came! OMG, they were 3 minutes apart. We jump in the car and head down the 101 as the sun was rising. I remember thinking that anyone in traffic next to us must be wondering what is going on with me as I winced and was working on my breathing.
As we arrived to the hospital the contractions were getting stronger and stronger. They rushed me up to Labor & Delivery and examined me. Are you serious??? I was only dilated 2cm! So I got myself comfortable and ready for my long journey. Comfortable meaning I had my ice chips, lifesavers and my BlackBerry. Yes, I had to update everyone.
Around 9:30am the anesthesiologist came in to see if I wanted an epidural. We waved her off telling her we wanted to try and do it without one. She nodded and said she was only a phone call away if I changed my mind. Shortly after the nurse came in to check me because my blood pressure was skyrocketing. My doctor was there and said he was going to have to give me magnesium to lower it. After he left the room I told Earl I hadn't done any research on that drug but I had read that an epidural can lower blood pressure. So when he returned we told him our decision....epidural. By the time the anesthesiologist came back in and asked me to sit up, I was in so much pain I couldn't stop shaking. But once that kicked in, life was good again and my blood pressure actually dropped too low so I asked them to back off the epidural a bit.
The only problem now is my contractions slowed down. Argh. I read that could happen. And that's when the "would you like some pitocin?" questions started coming. NO. My vitals are fine, Sophia's vitals are fine and I'm dilating 1cm per 2 hours so NO NO NO. Now if you do that math.....1cm per 2 hours and I had to get to 10cm......yeah, we were there for a long time.
Around 11:30pm the nurse told me I was only at 8cm and she would be back in 2 hours to check on me. I tried to rest and dosed off for a few minutes and she was walking back in the room saying she needed to check me again. I looked at the clock at it was 12:20am. Huh? I thought you said 2 hours? She told me it had been....what clock system was she using? But sure enough, I was now at 10cm. She transformed the bed into the delivery position and started going over what was going to happen.
"Ok, when its time to start pushing here is what you're going to do.....you'll push down like you have to poop the biggest poop of your life and count to 10, then take a breath and do it again 2 more times. Do you understand?" said the nurse.
"Yes, 3 sets of 10 counts with a deep breath in-between each set." I replied.
"OK, good. Now PUSH!" she says.
"WHAT? Now????" I look at her completely puzzled.
"YES, PUSH!"
Earl jumps up from the couch. "But the doctor isn't here!" I scream.
"He doesn't come until later. On this next contraction, you are going to push. Ok, NOW, PUSH!" She says.
Before I knew it my doctor was there and Sophia Madison was born on 4/13/2011 at 1:13am. So after almost 22 hours of labor and 45 minutes of pushing, we welcomed our little angel to the world. It was the most incrediable feeling to see her for the first time. The little thing that had been kicking me and having hiccups was finally in my arms.
I looked around the room I had been in since 7am and it didn't look familiar anymore. Maybe it was the delirium from no sleep or food but it was the strangest thing. I had no idea where I was at! But I had my baby.
We walked into that hospital as a couple and we left as a family.
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