So here's a quick note on who I am. I'm a woman of my word. I won't bullshit you or myself. If I say something, I mean it. With that said, when I say "I'm busy", "Have plans already" or shit "I have to wash my hair", I mean that! It's not some brush off.
Yes, I know a lot of girls play those games and use those lines to blow off guys. I am very guilty of using those in the past. But what I've come to find, its better to just be honest. Yes, the blow might hurt a little more at first, but in the long run its so much easier. You never wonder what happened, what if. I'll be honest and tell you, "It doesn't feel right", "This isn't working", "I think you're crazy", etc.
Going into anything, I always tell people I am a woman of my word. When you question that or even better, get angry at me, total turn off. I might do a lot of things that piss you off, but that shouldn't be one of them. Questioning my integrity is a deal breaker.
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So is that why you got off of the OKC? I tried to write you back to your note and boom...gone
ReplyDeleteOkay so here's my general thoughts after reading a lot of this blog
1) You're strong on personal detail on an internal level. Clearly you've got a handle on your feelings on stuff and are actually solid at conveying them in an accessible way
2) I wish there was more take home content. That's the only way that this will rise above being a dating diary. You need to move from the specific and then expand to the general. ("I am a woman of my word....here are three things to look for when someone's NOT as good as their word, etc")
I've got some other thoughts. If you're interested, email me back
Riley_ray at yahoo dot come